When someone asks us what kind of qualities you look for in a guy, it’s pretty unlikely that you’d find “selfish” on the list. While we don’t actively seek self-serving suitors, it’s common that some of us find ourselves in these less than desirable situations.
There are even times when we want to be with someone so badly that we completely ignore all of the red flags that are right in front of us.
We totally push our better judgment aside because we don’t want to admit the possibility that a guy could be with us for all of the wrong reasons. We can’t help who we fall for, even though we know there are times where we can let our emotions get the best of us.
The best thing to do is be super aware of your dating life (and your partner), to make sure you don’t wind up in a one-sided faux relationship that meets all of his needs and none of yours. Here are 15 significant signs he’s using you right now and you don’t even know it.
15.He Won’t Talk About Commitment
If you have been spending a lot of time with a guy you have every right to wonder where he sees things going in the near future. You shouldn’t have any problems when asking him important questions about the state of your relationship status.
If your guy tries everything in his power to avoid talking about commitment at all costs, you should definitely take that as being a huge red flag. Of course, it’s pretty standard for some guys to be afraid of commitment, but it’s never a good sign.
If he won’t commit to you, you know he’s up to no good. Whether you want to admit it or not, he definitely has a reason why he doesn’t want to settle down, even if he doesn’t vocalize it. It’s super likely that he won’t commit because he’s using you and he doesn’t actually see anything long-term with you.
Whether he chose to engage in this complicated relationship for physical, financial, or even convenience purposes – he’s totally only in it for himself.
14.Your Friends See Right Through His Act
Your girlfriends are usually pretty perceptive when it comes to seeing the signs of a man who’s not worthy of a good woman. If your girls are telling you straight up that he’s only with you for his own benefit, do yourself a favor and listen to their advice.